But we as a nation, we are left with some hard questions. You know, someone once described the joy and anxiety of parenthood as the equivalent of having your heart outside of your body all the time, walking around.
With their very first cry, this most precious, vital part of ourselves, our child, is suddenly exposed to the world, to possible mishap or malice, and every parent knows thereâ€™s nothing we will not do to shield our children from harm. And yet we also know that with that childâ€™s very first step and each step after that, they are separating from us, that we wonâ€™t — that we canâ€™t always be there for them.
They will suffer sickness and setbacks and broken hearts and disappointments, and we learn that our most important job is to give them what they need to become self-reliant and capable and resilient, ready to face the world without fear. And we know we canâ€™t do this by ourselves.
It comes as a shock at a certain point where you realize no matter how much you love these kids, you canâ€™t do it by yourself, that this job of keeping our children safe and teaching them well is something we can only do together, with the help of friends and neighbors, the help of a community and the help of a nation.
And in that way we come to realize that we bear responsibility for every child, because weâ€™re counting on everybody else to help look after ours, that weâ€™re all parents, that they are all our children.
This is our first task, caring for our children. Itâ€™s our first job. If we donâ€™t get that right, we donâ€™t get anything right. Thatâ€™s how, as a society, we will be judged.
And by that measure, can we truly say, as a nation, that weâ€™re meeting our obligations?
Can we honestly say that weâ€™re doing enough to keep our children, all of them, safe from harm?
Can we claim, as a nation, that weâ€™re all together there, letting them know they are loved and teaching them to love in return?
Can we say that weâ€™re truly doing enough to give all the children of this country the chance they deserve to live out their lives in happiness and with purpose?
Iâ€™ve been reflecting on this the last few days, and if weâ€™re honest with ourselves, the answerâ€™s no. Weâ€™re not doing enough. And we will have to change. Since Iâ€™ve been president, this is the fourth time we have come together to comfort a grieving community torn apart by mass shootings, fourth time weâ€™ve hugged survivors, the fourth time weâ€™ve consoled the families of victims.
And in between, there have been an endless series of deadly shootings across the country, almost daily reports of victims, many of them children, in small towns and in big cities all across America, victims whose — much of the time their only fault was being at the wrong place at the wrong time.
We canâ€™t tolerate this anymore. These tragedies must end. And to end them, we must change.
We will be told that the causes of such violence are complex, and that is true. No single law, no set of laws can eliminate evil from the world or prevent every senseless act of violence in our society, but that canâ€™t be an excuse for inaction. Surely we can do better than this.