Have you ever found yourself falling for a guy, but felt something was a little off with your budding relationship? You can never seem to get much of his time, heâ€™s always busy, and when you call him, heâ€™s always visiting that mother of his at bizarre hours (at least thatâ€™s what heâ€™d like you to believe). Seriously, come on! Visiting mom at midnight, every other night, with no apparent sign of a medical emergencyâ€”thereâ€™s clearly something not right here. Girlfriend, I hate to break it to you, but you might just be the other woman.
Of course you may not have knowingly put yourself in such a situation, but often times we see the telltale signs and overlook them. A yield sign, or red flag, will pop up right in our faces and weâ€™ll ignore it and go full speed ahead without any caution or concern. We see the hiding, scheming, and manipulating and we turn our heads because weâ€™re happy we’ve managed to snag ourselves a man. Well Iâ€™m here to tell you, despite the numerous “No I donâ€™t have a girlfriend,â€ â€œNah, Iâ€™m not married,â€ and â€œOh her? Sheâ€™s just my best friendâ€ you hear, the signs are pointing to “your” man belonging to someone else.
Hey, if you donâ€™t mind sharing a man, (not sure why any woman would in this day and AIDS, I mean age), then continue to turn a blind eye. But if you know you deserve more than a half-ass so-called relationship built on suspicion, then acknowledge the blaring signs. And just to keep you covered and aware, here are a 10 signs that you just might be the other woman.