One thing that bothers me as a proud, African descended transwoman is the ongoing sexist attacks aimed at women of color.
Women come in all shapes, sizes, skin tones and body configurations, but women of color have had to deal with a centuries old â€˜vanillacentricâ€™ beauty standard that was not created with them or their bodies in mind and uplifts white women as the ultimate templates for femininity while negatively impacting women of color.
Because of that beauty standard, far too often black women get â€˜thatâ€™s a manâ€™ or â€˜uglyâ€™ shade hurled at them. You only need look at Satoshiâ€™s Kanazawaâ€™s May 2011 Psychology Today â€˜Why Are Black Women Uglyâ€™ article as an in-your-face example of the â€˜unwomanâ€™ meme gone pseudo-scientific. One of Kanazawaâ€™s assertions in the article was black women were â€˜more manlyâ€™ due to extra testosterone in their systems.Â Thankfully, the article was taken down after it generated a worldwide firestorm of criticism and outrage.
As the Williams sisters, Fantasia, Ciara, Wendy Williams, Grace Jones, Brittney Griner and Caster Semenya can tell you, women who are deemed to have a non-standard feminine presentation, larger-than-life personality, a thin, athletic frame, are 5â€™7â€ or taller, wear a double digit shoe size or have a combination of physical traits that are deemed to be more apropos to the masculine gender have â€˜thatâ€™s a manâ€™ derision hurled at them. Even the late Donna Summer battled rumors in 1978 that she was a transsexual despite being the mother of two children. Flinging the ‘you’re a transwoman‘ accusation at a transwoman has sadly become the weaponized insult of choice by men and women when they wish to disparage any woman they donâ€™t like.